Antidote For Cult Recruitment:
- Know who you are and why you are the way you are. You are unique and
it would be a waste for you to throw your identity away in favour of a
group that does not encourage you to ask penetrating questions.
- Find yourself a role-model. Let this person be someone you know
well, respect and admire. This person will help you through the rough
times and inspire you during the good times.
- Know what cults are selling. Understand the issues before you
attempt to dialogue with them.
- Be wary of people who want to be your best friends on your first
meeting, who want you to share your personal and intimate details with
them, when you don't really know them or them you.
- Beware of groups or persons who subtly separate you from your
friends and family and substitute their group family.
- We all have things we don't like about ourselves. This makes us more
vulnerable because cults are experts at identifying these things and
providing quick and easy answers.
- We all grow up. As part of this we try to draw away from our parents
authority over us. Some rebel more than others in this attempt. Don't
let this time be a time when you exchange the control of your parents
from the even stronger and demanding control of a cult which will not
permit you any autonomy or individuality.
- "It won't happen to me" are often the last words someone
says before it does. When your defences are down to that level you are
even more vulnerable than normal.
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